Those online discussion somewhat lack the nuance needed to form an opinion. To me both sides make important points. Longer form discussions. I find that
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Actually help both with forming an opinion and to understand that the question is nuanced and more complex that internet shitposting can ever convey.
To reiterate, personal attacks are never ok. If you disagree come prepared to refute the actual points, not to shut people down.