If you don’t own the relay, there is no force, only suggestion. It’s someone else’s property so you can ask them, but not force them, to do something with it.
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In theory, it’s not the relay owners data neither, but the account holder, and there is no two ways around it, and getting cure doesn’t make the relay owners data.
Please understand.
It’s quite remarkable to see how american hypocrisy manifests.
Going to war over democracy, only to act the bullies and then ignoring their own peoples rights.
Now I’m not an American to be offended, but it’s still noteworthy.