Life changes for the better when you realize that everything is happening for you to either succeed or to learn.
Your response can always turn what happens into something beneficial.
Therefore every moment is a step in your evolution.
Discussion
2000 years ago The Yoga Sutra stated that world exists for pleasure AND liberation. Choose.
Indeed, life happens for us not to us. Even the biggest struggles can be used as lessons and important messages. How we see thing and how we approach it the make a huge difference. Overall, I like to be pronoid 🙃 