I care about people enough not to call them a “jug of canola oil”

While all you seem to see is her health issue, I also see her smile and her confidence. She might have accomplishments, a strong mind, and personality that make her special and admirable. She might not have deserved to win a beauty pageant, but she also doesn’t deserve to be defined by one thing only.

There are loving and effective ways to address health issues. What you did was neither. It was bullying; I’m just pointing that out. You can do better.