We’re still so, so incredibly early with lightning. Still not that many options that just consistently work, and I still haven’t found an app that’s great for running through with node. The most functional for me at this point are Muun and wallet of satoshi
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Combination of Muun and ln.tips linked to blue wallet covers a super wide base of functionality and self-custody (via Muun). I also have telegram installed to ping ln.tips directly
The same, I'd like to use other options but I must learn more
Getalby.com for desktop then i imported the sats into blue wallet for use in mobile(pulls from getalby wallet) works great for me on desktop and mobile