i added that one as a follow, that should do it... if you followed it with yours it would also be automatically whitelisted... assuming you'd published your follow list to the relay
is nice to have people testing it, let's see if it werks
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oh i forgot i wasn't following any of your profiles lol... well, yeah anyway, to explain, anyone who is followed by someone i am following is whitelisted, as well as my follows, it's a primitive web of trust based whitelist, based on the idea that paid users would want to allow their follows to also post and especially DM on the same relay