Actually their is a lot more but the most user friendly for beginners is Phoenix.

You have to keep in mind that sels custodial LN even with Phoenix comes with its own little challenges.

You have to understand a bit how channels and liquidity work to avoid paying to much fees. And you are right fees a high on Phoenix too (0,4% now). But it worth it compared to a custodial solution IMO

0,4% is « a lot » but very acceptable

-Zeus with Olympus LSP is a good alternative but it’s in beta I think right now available only to supporters.

-Breez is ok but much less reliable compared to Phoenix IMO

-Bitkit will be great in the future bit it is not ready now, to many bugs.

-Blixt wallet, and OBW are for advanced users

-MUun wallet is shady, nobody knows it you really have the custody of funds, and it doesn’t work in a high fees environment

To conclude I’d say stick with Phoenix if you are a beginner, just try to open a big enough channel at first to avoid paying new on-chain fees each time you lack inbound liquidity.