Do this short exercise to make sure that when You leap… the Net will actually appear

On a call with a client yesterday who had come down with a case of the “What-ifs.”

😨 What if the market tanks?

😨 What if a key team member leaves?

😨 What if I screw it all up?

I get it, I think this all.the.time. Especially in this environment — where uncertainty is everywhere.

That’s when your mind starts to screech like a microphone too close to the speaker, stuck in a feedback loop.

But it's really a fear loop.

My advice (because I've done this):

Create a “Who to Call When” List.

1. grab a piece of paper or open your note app.

2. Write down every area that feels foggy or fragile right now...where you’re unsure, stuck, or exposed.

3. Then, beside each one, jot down the name of a person OR the kind of person — you could reach out to when the moment comes.

Not to solve it now...

But to know you COULD!

👩‍🦰 a friend who picks up at 11pm.

👨 a mentor who’s walked this path before.

👨‍🦰 a consultant you haven’t hired yet but could.

🧑‍🏫 a peer who won’t sugarcoat it.

This list becomes your NET.

Practically AND emotionally.

It reminds you:

- You’re not flying solo.

- Help is available — if you’re clear on who and when.

Ever heard the delusionally optimistic quote? “Leap, and the net will appear.”

The net won't just magically show up.

Ya build it, one name at a time.

Do this and you’ll realize —

Your net, works.

Get it? 😉 (I slay myself)

So who’s on your “Who to Call When” list?

More importantly, who should be but isn't?