Well women get crazy when they reach mid life. But my wife knew me and was very aware that I would find her and all her helpers. So I kept the home, the kids and the business and she can keep living on her poor wage and ask kindly to see the kids when they want to.
We men should just stop being scared. What can they do? Kill you? Sure, but before they can you can do a very big hell of a mess.
Cut heads if necessary, Nobody can take kids from fathers and live to tell it around