Think out of the box or be hiper sensitive you are ostracized.

Sadly true.

It's impressive to note how his memory of things is so different from ours (rest of the family)...and I can see it clearly, know, that is a mechanism of self protection, from "abandoning" self.

It's mind blowing.

I researched after dealing with a dear one, that put me through the ringer. Our dynamic was so unhealthy and I was addicted to the highs that bear minimum attention would give me.

My curiosity to understand what was going on, let me to some understanding of how some people self defend, and in doing so, I am becoming again, much more tolerant and understanding of my brother.

Our connection shift once again, we were very close as teens, then he pushed me away. All of this happens on an energetic field first, and they fell it.