We have a similar background. It's not important, but it resonated with me.
I found out what life was about accidentally, and via terrible pain. I'll give the short answer: enlightenment is real and can be obtained by anyone. Best place to start (in my view) is to truly see that we are feeling animals before thinking machines. Being truly in touch with your emotions, makes ypy the master of your mind.
You'll know what to do, when you stop thinking.