> but the *discovery* game? different story.
Currently one of the most typical feedback from new Nostr users is how much it utterly sucks for discovery.
My typical answer is that Nostr isn't bad, it just doesn't address discovery (the problem it does solve is retaining your audience without any company being able to censor you, which is a different problem).
> show me videos where 10+ privacy nerds i follow all zapped the same link
That's already a non-trivial query. You can't run this directly against relays through the Nostr protocol.
Of course if you download all Nostr data first, then you can do whatever you want.