we can discuss it, theres a line that has to be drawn somewhere. thats all I was trying to establish.
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It's just cultural. Take drag. When Shakespeare was writing EVERY CHARACTER was played by a man. Juliet was a teen boy in drag.
I got married to my hot as hell Red Army kicking Lithuanian wife wearing a skirt like this one.

Gay and drag, you don't need lines for that, just "are they good people?". That's the only line that matters for any one really.
It ain't just cultural. A kilt isn't called a dress, and women were not allowed to be actresses which might have been a good call given Hollywood. Faggots dress up as women because they typically want to put their dicks in someone else's mouth or ass of the same sex. This is decreed to be an abomination and an affront to life. Other things that are not good ideas are sticking your dick in an electrical outlet.
Human biology is simply more complex than you might like.
A kilt is a skirt. It's one worn by men, but it's a skirt.
Dicks. Why do you care what people do with their dicks? Decreed? By whom? Certainly not biology, which has given us a small percentage of gay people, and if you're religious, then people are gay because GOD made them that way.
If this is a Christian thing, I tend to respect the ones who have followed the words of Jesus as reported by Matthew and given away their wealth and followed him. It's a high bar, but those are the words.
Actually, it's more simple than you purport. God decreed such relations as abominations and it isn't because He made them that way but that they have unnatural desires, one of which is lust.
I've all ready done the second thing you name, but I'd say the name is YHSVH not Jesus. I didn't "Give away my wealth" but donated everything my household had to the Church which was attacked--by the same "Gay" people you are here defending. It causes desolation whether you like it or not.
hurting others is where I normally draw the line. but talking about issues instead of hiding from them might help people. if we could spend more time talking about why people are gay instead of shunning the issue or being called homophobic I would come to a better understanding. the world would be a better place.
People are gay in exactly the same way I'm straight.
They just are. It's not a choice, any more than it's my choice to be 5'8".
Simple acceptance solves a lot of the strife.
That's not really true though. Straight people are straight to reproduce humans. The male's testosterone goes together perfectly with the females estrogen and creates a strong pair. The female can take care of babies and the male can raise strong men while defending the female and children.
It's un-natural to bond same sexes together. I'm not saying this as a religious extremist, I feel religion distorts the issue to much. So I accept the gayness in people, but it must be called what it is. It's a disorder.
It feels like we all have disorders and mental health issues, so it's not really the end of the world if I think gays have one too.