Check out my relay list pictured on nostr:npub18m76awca3y37hkvuneavuw6pjj4525fw90necxmadrvjg0sdy6qsngq955

Most nostr apps allow you to modify your relay list.

Go to nostr.watch for a directory. Also check out nostrpul.se both created by nostr:npub1uac67zc9er54ln0kl6e4qp2y6ta3enfcg7ywnayshvlw9r5w6ehsqq99rx