Wow thank you for sharing your theory, I really like what you say and yes you make complete sense

I particularly like the point ….

By narrowing our focus down to such a prescribed outcome or goal we seem to somehow miss out on all the other invitations the universe is trying to send our way. It reminds me of the ‘finger pointing to the moon story’ do you know that one?

Also I like your point about how we are always being invited to heal ourselves. The universe seems to create similar sets of circumstances over and over again until we learn the lesson and free ourselves from being blind. Freud called this repetition compulsion….

I like to think that all of us have an inner healer that is always moving us towards wholeness….

Thank you for the long and considered response, I really liked it

Have a lovely day