My current setup is
- my husband gets paid at the EoM,
- at the beginning of the next month, the bills, VISA card, and investments (including an irresponsible amount of Bitcoin 😜 ) get auto-deducted,
- I withdraw the cash for the month
- and swap some BTC to LN,
- and then we're basically broke until the Kindergeld that trickles in near the end and covers later auto-bills and (usually) keeps us out of the red.
The more things I could pay for with LN (there actually are starting to be some local places that take it, yay!), the more money would go into LN and the less I'd need to use the VISA for. I see lightning as a replacement for debit/credit cards, Google Pay, or PayPal, not as a replacement of fiat cash. (So long as inflation doesn't go over 10% per month, or something, at which point the swap-in/swap-out fees for bitcoin debit cards might be worth it.)