Yeah it’s true, it does depend on the woman.
I guess I was speaking for myself and probably for someone like your wife.
However about the wager you had with you wife at the bar, if you didn’t leave her at the bar and replace her with an easy girl then there is no need to be jealous 🤷♀️
If you are an attractive man with a cool personality women will always show some interest. It’s about how you manage the women that find you attractive (as a married man) 🔑