Your relays don’t just matter based on who you follow. Here’s what else relay choice impacts
* your personal timeline (with replies)
* your event publish reach to your followers
* your inbound DMs
* your outbound DMs
* your notifications
* any global timeline
* event relay hints you reply to or view threads
And the right relays today are likely different in a week - at least for a number of reasons. The best relay to publish a specific event is different between events (a sent DM is different from a global feed note, different again a reply on a poorly replicated event).
Relay selection is a deceptively complex topic. Any overly simplistic autopilot is likely a step backwards for users experience.