Even the most incredible parents can only see you as *they* do, and they see your best interest through the lens of what they want for you.
They also project strengths and limitations on you because they are biased.
I try to remember this as I guide and raise my daughter.
that's a very important point!
similar ideas helped me to improve the relationship with my mum – slowly rebuilding it all with the understanding of how she sees me vs who i actually am is hard and still in progress – but god, how rewarding!
🤙🏾💜
Isn’t this just the human condition?
