Most of the misdirection is hollywood romanticism. Women are hypnotized with this fantacy. Then when they find themselves with shitty diapers and a cluttered house they think its your fault their plans didn't work out. This is their motive for wanting to "travel".

Rule of thumb: women feel good when you are arranging things or buying things for them that cost a lot of money. The more it costs, the more they like it. I can't explain it, but it makes your life easier if you realize it early. When women say "I dom't care about money, I just want the simple things in life" this is you witnessing them lying to themselves. They want to believe they aren't this shallow, but lets be honest, you get just as excited about expensive things you want and don't have.

Another rule of thumb: Men show love to women by providing, protecting and sex; Women show love by buying clothes for someone else. Yes wierd, but true. Clothes are a big deal to women, its their "love" language. Tell me any women that will admit this to you, NONE!

Women are great to have around, they are absolutely necessary to raise your children but ONLY if they are also HER kids. Don't raise someone else's kids the woman took from him, only take on widows if you want that life. Marriage isn't really about the woman, its about the kids you produce. The woman will need your love and protection, but they aren't the weak and helpless sprites they present. This is part of their sexual identity, they "collapse" into power over you. Its quite counterintuitive for a man to understand.