Love it. Although management is another form of coping. A self soothing tool.
I heard someone put it quite well: you’re not driving the car, you’re tied up in the trunk!
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I didn't mention management.
What did you mean by management?
Changing yourself. Tracking progress. Collecting karma points. Management is trying to control or track something.
It’s just another coping mechanism
Your actions, thoughts & feelings are all downstream from your beliefs.
You can really only change yourself by shifting your beliefs.
We have free choice only in the agreements we make, in what we believe.
Belief is not a prerequesite. Anything conditional is in relation to something. Anything in relation is separate.
Of course there is the idea of changing yourself, but why construct a new point of view when you can cut out the middle man and drop all views altogether?
There’s a reason it’s called the absolute.