Buy = cashapp

Self custody = bluewallet

Self custody lightning wallet = Phoenix wallet

Nostr receive zaps = wallet of satoshi

Depends on what I use for & the security ,

Cash app might be the most unsecure, but great for moving money and using it quickly…

Muun wallet is okay for just little security if you don’t want to do too much for it to be secure.

Stackernews is great for getting zaps and connecting it to nostr.

Nunchuk is one of the better ones for security.

These are just my opinion and what I’ve been advised…