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Why have most men been brought up to be "nice guys" if it's not even what women want?

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I'm guessing when you say "nice guys" you're thinking of soft, effeminate wimpy men. Today's society certainly promotes that and it's fucking retarded.

But being a strong man doesn't mean you aren't nice, kind, and with good morals. I don't think the issue is with having too many "nice guys", rather I think it's the bastardization of what a good man is.

Confident assholes certainly get laid more, there's something about "bad boys" that women are undeniably attracted to. But the kind of dudes who play this game and the kind of girls who give it up for it is not something to aspire to in my opinion.

I think world needs strong men with good principles, not "nice guys" or "bad boys". What's your take?

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Alice 2y ago

Totally agree. I think there needs to be less single mothers. I almost feel that not having a father in the home affects both the girls and the boys which plays out later in dating.

For instance. If a girl doesn't have a father or father figure, she's going to grow up in her masculine energy. She'll be in it a majority of the time.

Because there is no protector. Then of course the boys become more in their feminine energy, especially if the mom hovers.

Hell doubt himself and not feel like a man. And when the girl in her masculine energy encounters this, she can smell that shit from a mile away.

It's a deteriant for the girl. Because women are supposed to be mainly in their feminine energy. The guy has no confidence as a man that puts her in danger.

Do you see what I'm getting at?

splinter 2y ago

Yes I totally get it, I agree I think you're spot on.