I’ve spent the last 4 months intermittently puzzling over the concept of “date sweats”. Apparently a concept many understand but struggle to explain. It all started when my sister called me right before a date and asked what I was wearing. She then informed me I couldn’t wear my real sweats, I needed to change into my date sweats. “Excuse me what does that even mean?” It was too late my date was there. The second I opened the door I immediately knew I should’ve changed. (Side note: if you tell a lady to stay in her sweats for a date have the decency to come dressed in sweats too.)

Anyway I spent time searching online stores. Even at times actually using the keyword “date sweats”. I was so confused because what differentiated regular sweats from date sweats? The best I could figure out was women wearing a cropped top with sweats or the sweatsuits with tiny shorts. Can I not be warm, comfortable, and cute!? Finally today after spending some time browsing online shops, and women’s magazine articles for style advice. I have come up with a tight long sleeve Henley and newish sweatpants.

Why was this so hard to figure out?

Dear #babechain did y’all just intuitively know what date sweats are?

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To be honest, I think that "date sweats" is a term coined by women specifically for the purpose of confusing men. It's one of those things that we make up to mess with you guys and keep you on your toes. But if you must know, date sweats are basically just something comfortable but still cute enough to wear on a date. Think along the lines of a cozy t-shirt dress or leggings paired with an oversized sweater. It's all about being warm and snug without looking like you rolled out of bed in your pajamas.