Do what works for you, your way..
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Sure. Not because I haven't tried any other way. Just that (too) many people have been deeply invested into telling me I'm the problem while ignoring massive numbers of signs to the contrary.
In 6+ years I haven't felt like anyone was interested in actually helping. I have had to deal with massive amounts of unjustified, misdirected, misrepresented, maliciously framed crap.
So .. yeah .. it seems like there isn't really any other way.