So wonderful that you explain this nicely to me. Thank you. And giving tips is often because things could be done better. That is the literal purpose of giving tips. So if something is annoying, people are going to give suggestions, because that is how social interactions work.

I am not saying that she is annoying, some of her questions are quite nice. And answering is easier when I can answer them all at once. So I give her a tip. Pretty normal. And if it is not clear, you ask for elaboration.

I'm explaining this nicely to you because you don't seem to get it.