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"Love is not a craving for attention,
It is the gift of attention.
It is what you offer another person when you're already happy,
Simply allowing your happiness to shine in another's presence.
You've tied a knot in your heart,
And now you want to feel better in the company of other people.
The feeling of 'I' is the knot—
Just untie it." 
Not to “ackshually” you, but for women, attention is a very important. They’re like flowers, and attention is a love language they need to thrive.
Neglect at your own peril sir.
Anyway..just fucking with u 😉
"Attention is a moral act: it creates, brings aspects of things into being, but in doing so makes others recede. What a thing is depends on who is attending to it, and in what way." -IM
We *give* our attention to the things we love, so it’s not illogical to seek attention.
Maybe that’s the paradox, you must give with no expectations.
Love manifests as an involuntary need for the well-being of an other.
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