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I take a more relaxed view of the bucket list. For me, it's not so much about working through or ticking off the individual points as quickly as possible. That might even be the least important point. The process of creating the list is much more interesting. In other words, thinking about what I would like to learn. Which place would I like to travel to? What would I like to experience?

tanel 1y ago

maybe it's the prioritisation of things, that gives your head some hierarchy and clarity + maybe having it as a referrable list of things which you could do, not should do, is the healthier approach to this

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Luna 1y ago

Maybe, yes you could be right. I don't see such a list as dogma. It is not absolute. It helps me, as you say, to prioritize and get clarity. It is also subject to constant change. Things are added, others are deleted

AK 👸🏻 1y ago

Nothing wrong with lists to organise your life.. but to live a life, to ground your fulfillment and happiness on a list is not a great idea

Luna 1y ago

Absolutely true

tanel 1y ago

what do you base your happiness on?

gratitude, being present and being detached from anything external?

AK 👸🏻 1y ago

I think happiness is what you make of it. It’s a choice. You have to know who you really are to be happy. You don’t base it on anything. It’s know love, gratitude, joy, content, security at its most basic of human needs. You also have to know how to recognise it.