Well, I've mostly found just delusional idiots. I don't know where all the good people are at. I have only found one decent person in my life that I could actually trust and had good connection with.

Long term relationships are kind of fundamentally stupid too though. Like if you look old couples, they often hate each others almost as much as they love. People are inherently imperfect so relationships become these love-hate relationships very quickly. None of the magic can persist either and what ever excitement there is, it will eventually fade away. Not saying that relationships are all bad but just kind of stupid too.