Need better self hosted tailscale options.
Connect Zeus wallet app with Tailscale and lndconnect to your lightning node
It took me couple of hours (trial-and-error) to find out how I could connect my Zeus wallet to my lightning node using Tailscale. The Zeus documentation don't provide me the info as I'm not using on of the described node platforms there.
On my blog I've written a short explanation how I connected my Zeus wallet using Tailscale instead of Tor. The Tor connection was always very slow. Opening Zeus to send or receive a payment was always unworkable. Now connected using Tailscale I'm able to use my Zeus wallet loads instant without the hassle waiting for an active connection.
https://sebastix.nl/blog/connect-zeus-app-with-tailscale-lightning-node-lndconnect/
Discussion
These projects are super promising for simpler use cases, both using Wireguard just like tailscale does under the hood
https://github.com/fractalnetworksco/selfhosted-gateway
https://github.com/wg-easy/wg-easy
The latter especially is probably the most tailscale-like.