Ya know these topics are interesting because it gets pretty existential pretty quickly. What do you think you are? What do you think our purpose is here?

Personally I see us as souls temporarily inhabiting human bodies. I am not a woman, I am a soul existing here very temporarily in a female body.

I find a part of the purpose of life (guessing here as claiming to know the purpose of life is wild hubris) to be personal development and individuation. Having a sub/dom relationship holds both parties back from taking on full responsibility for their life and in letting go of trying to control others. I see these arrangements as contrary to development and contrary to the purpose of life itself.

Here is one of my favorite quotes along these lines.

Be free, and support the freedom of others 🕊️✌️