It is actually harder to make female friends as a pretty girl. Most women are not healed and have this "competition mindset" ingrained in their minds, which prevents us from growing and flourishing together as a sisterhood. This is mostly due to deep wounds, insecurities, and trauma generated by men. Sometimes, I wish women could see how powerful society would be if we all joined forces and helped each other grow. Imagine a community of women giving advice to one another on how to make your marriage more successful, how to improve your relationship with your kids, how to teach your kids, how to raise them under God's law, and how to cook healthier meals for the family.

This would consecutively affect male performance in society, the economy, health, education. We literally have the power to fix the world if we set our minds to it.

Maybe it's a very utopian idea, but still, it's a dream.

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That's what society's used to be.

I heard a long time ago about how women also used to be very candid with each other about their sex lives... Not because they wanted to gossip, but because everyone wants to make sure your pleasing your man so that he doesn't look elsewhere and destabilize the society. Women really are the best kind of glue for the community Webb they're all on the same page.

That’s what I meant to say in more explicit words 😆

This is what women do inside a family by centuries. Small families are the problem.

Yes

Hypocritical.

Just look at your last note. Is it men making it a competition for women, or women making it a competition for men?

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It is nice that you are trying to help people, but men aren’t the enemy. I agree women can fix the world. Who they choose shapes the world. Women are not naive. They know the game, and so do you 🙂.