How to make people never want to leave you?

Get comfortable with being on your own.

Learn how to enjoy yourself, whether you’ve got people around you or not.

This makes people to respect your time as they realise you’re not sitting around waiting for them.

They will start worrying about missing out on the experience of hanging out with you.

Let people know you’re happy to have them join you, but be clear that you’re going ahead with or without them.

Be so rooted in yourself that nobody’s absence or presence can disturb your peace.

Soo many nights out and outings have been ruined because of flakey people bailing out last minute.

Do NOT wait around for people before you go and do things.

It sounds backwards - but the more people see you don’t need them, the more they want you 😅

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