Oh yeah. I experienced that often, and still do.

We can’t but trying to radiate trust and good intentions.

If you really just want to know how someone is „how are you?“ you can ask, and if there’s nothing more that’s fine. A while after you ask again, just how they are, that can build trust.

So when you focus on the good, good comes to you, somehow, sometime.

Thank you so much for your thoughts, that’s truly appreciated and makes me think!