I challenge #2.
A 51% attack only gives an attacker a chance (a 51% chance, or however much of the hashrate they control) to double spend their own coins, it does not give the attacker any increased ability to change consensus rules.
In fact, changing the consensus rules as a 51% attacker would immediately render your 51% advantage moot, as you would be excluded from the network by the other 49% of participants.