Hi All, NEWB question about relays.

Are the more paid relays you have the better and why??

I have 8 or 9 and no public at the moment and sometimes its fast sometimes slow, never consistent.

I also notice not all posts, relys , dms are reflected across different clients, its like they are not in sync.

For other NEWBS lists below to help find relays

Relays

Nostr.watch - See all relays and compare features, uptime, latency and more

Relay.exchange - List of paid relays