I studied sociology and psychology in college for 5 years before i had enough of it. What im saying is how you can make friends based on looking at your posts. Just be more easy going, dont try to run the room too much, and choose your inputs and outputs more cautiously. Its a trick to create a social circle. You also dont need to be the smartest, coolest or wisest. You just need to add good energy into the mix and people love a good mix. Thats just my perspective. As i spent time a lone all the time and never really go out but my ability to make friends when i speak to others is very abnormal but i can only do it by being consistent and conscious. I tend to get alittle obsessive, over judgmental and sometimes too open or “heavy” so i have to really watch myself when engaging as well. Also you mightve seen it as expressing yourself when you wrote it but it comes off more as a complaint then a open discourse. Hope this helps.