I see you have za.purplerelay.com thats one in S. Africa, it's better to use wss://purplerelay.com as we have many relays around the world and it will auto locate the closest relay for users.
Found the bug that was causing that.
V0.12.1 released with bug fixed.
Thanks for helping point that out.
You have 27 relays as per most recent nip-65 relay list.
Damus and plebstr are probably merging old deprecated lists from kind3 content.
Check below for your currently up-to-date lists:
https://listr.lol/npub12qpvkjr6dcp60qwjpdx3zklup6t2hauq9kd6fmjf6adqyvdq6mvqv2v8cz
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Keep in mind also that too many relays might cause clients to struggle for performance. The sweet spot seems to be between 5-10