I once got a zap on a week old post. I felt known. It was also a really big zap, but even if it had been a normal one, it didn't come across as creepy to me. I had already interacted with that person though, but I don't think it would have mattered.
I've heard others talk about feeling weird about it, but usually it was on someone's profile that they liked romantically, but hadn't really talked to yet.
If it's not romantic, I don't really see the creep factor. It's more of an encouragement because someone liked something I wrote.
But having written books might help with my perspective because I want people to read my first book even after I've written 5 more. (I'm working on book 3 now)
I think that might be the case, when we write we really put ourselves out there and if someone reads it, they trully get to know a piece of you. It would be invasive if it weren't for us putting out there.
It is rather an invitation in social media I think 🤔. I keep a small booklet where I draw my machines and my thoughts, I give my wife a page to read every now and then and I really hope she likes it. It is an invitation to my heart ❤️ too.
Awe, you seem to have found a great and encouraging wife, or else she would have only seen one and then no more. So the fact that you show her a page every now and then is a good indicator. 😃
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