This is a really toxic attitude. It's easy to dismiss true injustice as an "excuse", st you essential blame a victim because you're too lazy to evaluate the claims.
It's a rule for you.
Not to be applied to anyone else.
Ever.
See, for example, Jocko's Extreme Ownership
https://youtu.be/e-Q-qxXwepY?si=nXfNOSXYxUuhXqJg
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Why a rule for me?
Also, I looked up your example: at the start, "It teaches you lessons that you will not forget." .. yeah, except we already did .. see all the horrible war crimes of last few years up to now.
