I am the only boy in my immediate generation. I have been raised by and around women my entire lives. I have two grown up daughters. I dont have to ask. I watch them handle their business. They taught me to handle mine.

There is a difference. The ladies in my family have a community of family at their back. they can be bold in rebuffing anything. That is the goal. A community. not a bunch of individuals who snitch on each other to a nanny state. but as i said different strokes.

Now about the question of why you need to attack me personally. Please answer the other note. I would like to keep my personal issue with your bad bmanners and behaviour separate to the topic at hand but need it resolved.