i'm back to nostrudel because it actually respects my relay choices and doesn't run off trying to connect to the spamfests that are relay.damus.io and relay.primal.net and offchain.pub

if your client doesn't pull events from these three you don't see replyguy

i keep telling people

if it's worth something, it will be spammed

if it's worth something FUCKING PAY FOR IT and the spammers won't