i so much agree with that observation. this should be managed client side and not by the user in a lot of ways. i am not a hardcore programmer but its clear the networking must be seperated from the UI/UX in the background and clients should do dynamic analysis and deprioritization if a relay gives trouble. i think the amethyst developer in case he doesnt know how to do it should get outside help on that from someone who has fixed those issues. some other obvious problems are profile scrolling.. why would you show half the profile on the screen and the other half for scrolling. just make everything scroll like one page.