Here's a lifehack. while listening to those song mixes on youtube, turn on a podcast or audiobook at the same time.
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Maybe, but they have done several studies asking a man and a woman to listen to two separate conversations at the same time. But only concentrate on one conversation.
Men have no problem doing this, but women struggle. Because real men and women's brains are wired differently for survival.
Men evolved into hunters killers, stalkers. We are the apex predators. This requires intense concentration and focus on your prey.
On the other hand. Women evolved into protectors and caregivers of small vulnerable children. It's critical that they be easily distracted. To care for children and keep them safe.
This is why small children are relatively unsafe in the care of their fathers. Even though the father's care just as much about them as the mothers. The fathers are not wired for distraction. Can easily forget they left a child in a hot car. Or someplace else.
Most mothers are baffled when they first realize the father's don't notice or seem to care about a screaming child. Knowledgeable mother's know not to trust the father to care for a small child. Until it's old enough to avoid danger on its own lol.
Failing to understand this critical difference between men and women can have catastrophic results..🤔💡