She is somehow so close yet so far... there is but two sets: those things that are true and those things that are not.

She doesn't get how important truth is. The common ground we must have is the desire for truth, goodness, beauty, and unity. Sacrificing truth for a false sense of unity forfeits both.

Being unnecessarily harsh with truth is actually just using true things as a weapon against the other and is not actually honesty, but just because someone can use something incorrectly doesn't make the thing itself less than good, useful, or true.