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Nope, I have always been an Introvert and STILL am an Introvert and have good memories of uni days!

I *MUCH* PREFER Introvert people!

But I’m also cool tho, haha.

But I am NOT a People Person and enjoy hanging out solo, including solo dining at nice restaurants, seeing movies, music, etc. since my 20s.

People confuse being an Introvert with being shy or socially awkward or avoidant when it’s about where a person gets their energy from.

Extroverts NEED people around and get their source of energy from other people. They are not good at being alone.

Extreme Extroverts suck energy from Introverts and it’s draining for them.

I limit my time hanging with Extreme Extroverts cuz their OUTWARD & EXTERNAL need is overwhelming and too much for Introverts.
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Ľḭṿḙśƫṟãɖãṁṹṧ💫#RunCoreV30 1y ago

Since I can remember I only ever needed less than a handful of people in my life and not even every day or every week. But I’ve given speeches, give presentations, and demos as well performed in plays, & excelled at sports.

Just how we roll I guess

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joiestylotus 1y ago

Yep. People also confuse quantity with quality.

It’s much better having several close, true friends than having bunch of “friends”.

QUALITY > quantity

Popularity is highly overrated.

I do have a lotta friends tho.

Lot of Actors, Actresses and other performers are actually Introverts. They’re good on stage.

It’s them being on “professional” mode.

Personal private self is different and only their actual true friends and family know them.