That's the problem with labels. When you have try to describe what you do to someone, you have to deal with the person's perception and experience of that and therefore the resulting judgement placed upon you. I resisted saying we unschool for so long as many people I knew who said they unschooled projected an image of unschoolers that I did not want to be associated with. How to describe what you do has been a longstanding issue for many home educators. I've mostly stuck to home educating tbh.