what is "the trend since feminism took hold"?
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Women leading the household and thinking men are pathetic and incapable, needing the women to tell them what to do etc.
That's awful! ...thankfully I don't see much of that in the world.
I think we need to be careful with the word "feminism", it means wildly different things to different people. I try to never use the word with out a qualifier. For quite a lot of people the word simply means women having full human rights, and I don't think we can blame women having rights for bad behavior like your example.