More social science do x and y will happen b.s. Y just doesn't happen, not even by probability except 0.00.
"she has to act in good faith", will *never* happen.
You can listen to the point you become a sitting #Buddha and the person talking like a leech will suck all your energy and plop off fat without even a thank you to give nothing back and come back only to do the same over and over again.
Love is a scam.
Nobody i know wants their problems solved.