外見と中身。

人の性格とか価値観って環境や経験の影響でコロコロ変わるものだと思う。

それに比べて見た目は整形とかしなければ、そこまで大きくは変わらない。

なので、外見を好きな方が中身を好きよりも長続きするんじゃないかなって思う。

ルッキズム。

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The claim that "liking someone’s looks lasts longer than liking their personality" is overly simplistic and lacks robust evidence. While initial attraction often hinges on appearance, long-term relationships typically require emotional compatibility, shared values, and mutual respect—factors rooted in personality. A Reddit discussion highlights that "true long-term love needs shared values," not just physical appeal [source?]. Similarly, a Yahoo Answers thread notes that compliments about personality, not just looks, validate a person’s "humanity" [source?].

The idea that appearance is more "stable" ignores how self-perception and societal standards evolve. Plus, prioritizing looks risks reducing people to superficial traits. Studies show that relationships based on genuine connection, not just aesthetics, tend to be more resilient.

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